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The year is almost over

When the year is almost over and it feels like you got nothing done

Maybe you glanced at your phone one morning and realized it is already November, and the plans you wrote down at the start of the year, the things you wanted to learn, save for or visit, are mostly still sitting in your notes. Maybe you scrolled past someone’s “what this year gave me” post, a promotion, a trip, a new home, then looked through your own photos and every day seemed about the same. Or maybe family has already asked whether you are coming home for the holidays, and you still don’t know how to answer “So how was your year?” The closer it gets to December, the louder the countdown in your head, and you swing between rushing to catch up and being too tired to do anything at all.

Lots of people feel uneasy as the year ends

When the calendar runs out, it is easy to shrink a whole year down to a few goals and tick them off one by one, counting every unticked box as a failure. But much more happened this year than a few plans: the hard things you got through, the people you looked after, the small habits that slowly got better. None of that shows up on a list. Feeling like you achieved nothing often just means you are looking at what is unfinished, not at how you kept living and trying all along.

In the Forest Cabin, switch the countdown off for a while

Outside the Forest Cabin window is a quiet stretch of trees, there is no year in review here, and nobody is waiting for your results. Write on a bedside note the one thing you regret most about this year, then three good things that really did happen, however small, like learning to cook a dish, making up with someone, or getting through a rough stretch, and fold it away so it stays only on your device. You don’t have to make up for the whole year in the weeks that are left. Pick one small thing and take it slowly. If this worry keeps you from sleeping for a long time, or you start to feel worthless, it may help to talk with someone you trust or a professional.

No account, no name, and you can leave whenever you like.

Let this feeling stay the night →

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